
About Us
Our Story
Nerdy to Flirty was founded to provide candid, real advice to those looking for success with dating or for overall confidence. After experiencing a negative blind dating event where most participants were insecure, uncomfortable and anxious, our owner, Alyx, realized that all they were missing was some honest insight and support. Sometimes all you need is to ask for help, and we're here to provide just that!
Mission
Our mission is to help people feel and look their best so they can attract the love they deserve, starting with themselves.
Our Services
In-Person Coaching
Meet one-on-one at a local coffee shop to talk about your goals, struggles, and everything between. Serving OC/LA areas only.
Virtual Coaching
Get the same benefits of in-person coaching no matter where you are in the country. We're available via Zoom, FaceTime, or even simply a phone call.
Free Workshops
Our free workshops are open to men looking for general dating advice and the opportunity to ask questions and learn in a structured classroom-like venue. Examples of workshop topics include:
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How to properly set up your dating apps
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How to practice proper etiquette on the first date
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How to make lasting relationships

Coaching Programs
Our Approach to Coaching
Coaches have the ability to view things from afar - in what some call helicopter vision - and to shed new light on difficult situations. Regardless of what brings you to coaching, we tailor your experience to meet your own individual needs and goals.
Dating Coaching
Unlock your potential in the dating world with our comprehensive dating coaching program. We cover the following topics and more:
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Navigate the world of online dating with practical strategies on getting responses and setting up dates
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Learn how to communicate and get your needs met in a healthy way
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Discover how to flirt and how to take rejection in stride
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Become crystal clear on where you see your future and who your ideal partner is
Confidence Coaching
Indulge in personalized one-on-one coaching sessions structured around diagnosing and building your confidence, no matter where you are in life. Topics include:
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Techniques to speak up more effectively and assertively
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Building resilience to setbacks or criticism
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Tools to reframe negative self-talk into empowering thoughts
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Learning to love yourself first so you can build healthy relationships with others



