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Dating & Confidence  Coaching

Get the right advice for where you are on your journey:

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About Us

Our Story

Nerdy to Flirty was founded to provide candid, real advice to those looking for success with dating or for overall confidence. After experiencing a negative blind dating event where most participants were insecure, uncomfortable and anxious, our owner, Alyx, realized that all they were missing was some honest insight and support. Sometimes all you need is to ask for help, and we're here to provide just that! 

Mission

Our mission is to help people feel and look their best so they can attract the love they deserve, starting with themselves.

Our Services

In-Person Coaching

Meet one-on-one at a local coffee shop to talk about your goals, struggles, and everything between. Serving OC/LA areas only.

Virtual Coaching

Get the same benefits of in-person coaching no matter where you are in the country. We're available via Zoom, FaceTime, or even simply a phone call.

Free Workshops

Our free workshops are open to men looking for general dating advice and the opportunity to ask questions and learn in a structured classroom-like venue. Examples of workshop topics include:

  • How to properly set up your dating apps

  • How to practice proper etiquette on the first date

  • How to make lasting relationships

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Coaching Programs

Our Approach to Coaching

Coaches have the ability to view things from afar - in what some call helicopter vision - and to shed new light on difficult situations. Regardless of what brings you to coaching, we tailor your experience to meet your own individual needs and goals.

Dating Coaching

Unlock your potential in the dating world with our comprehensive dating coaching program. We cover the following topics and more:

  • Navigate the world of online dating with practical strategies on getting responses and setting up dates

  • Learn how to communicate and get your needs met in a healthy way

  • Discover how to flirt and how to take rejection in stride

  • Become crystal clear on where you see your future and who your ideal partner is

Confidence Coaching

Indulge in personalized one-on-one coaching sessions structured around diagnosing and building your confidence, no matter where you are in life. Topics include:

  • Techniques to speak up more effectively and assertively

  • Building resilience to setbacks or criticism

  • ​Tools to reframe negative self-talk into empowering thoughts

  • Learning to love yourself first so you can build healthy relationships with others

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Client Testimonials

Working with Alyx has been one of the best decisions I could have made for myself. During my time working with her, she’s helped me face things I had been trying to avoid. I've learned about myself and gained more self-confidence and self-awareness. I look forward to working with her more in the future.

Chris L. 34

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Free Advice

If you're not quite ready for a free consultation, or would like to scope out what we're about first, follow us on Instagram or TikTok!

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Free, practical advice for dating & confidence

Frequently asked questions

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Alyx Dodge

Owner and Coach

Get in Touch

Have questions or need more information? Use the form below or reach out to us directly via phone or email!

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